What if I told you that the problems in your relationship did not originate in your relationship? The truth is, every relationship has conflict and each conflict has a core pattern. That conflict presents itself in the same argument that keeps happening over and over again in your relationship. I help couples understand the roots of their conflicts, end the cycle of arguing and strengthen connection and intimacy in your relationship. I help desperate couples experience deeper connection and end the toxic cycle of relating.
How We Love: Becoming Conscious of Who & What Is Driving Your Marriage
Attachment and psychoanalytic approaches are used in marital counseling sessions to help couples become conscious of their “ Love Styles” developed from attachment injuries in childhood. Because every relationship has a core pattern, (those same arguments that trigger one another into that familiar cycle of relating), I help couples recognize their relationship “Core Patterns” and become conscious of their inner wounded child driving their marriage.
The goals is to help couples disarm conflicting verbal communication, increase intimacy, respect and affection. Couples learn to comfort one another and create a heightened sense of empathy and understanding within the context of the relationship.
I also use a myriad of tailored approaches to couples counseling to provide the best fit for your needs.
No matter what your specific situation is, I am comprehensively trained to address your situation from a trauma informed perspective that addresses the root of the problems, identify the cycle and help you foster deeper trust and connection within your marriage.
